The friend who
remains standing and fidgetting about while a patient is talking
business to him, or the friend who sits and proses, the one from an idea
of not letting the patient talk, the other from an idea of amusing
him,--each is equally inconsiderate. Always sit down when a sick person
is talking business to you, show no signs of hurry, give complete
attention and full consideration if your advice is wanted, and go away
the moment the subject is ended.
[Sidenote: How to visit the sick and not hurt them.]
Always sit within the patient's view, so that when you speak to him he
has not painfully to turn his head round in order to look at you.
Everybody involuntarily looks at the person speaking. If you make this
act a wearisome one on the part of the patient you are doing him harm.
So also if by continuing to stand you make him continuously raise his
eyes to see you. Be as motionless as possible, and never gesticulate in
speaking to the sick.
Never make a patient repeat a message or request, especially if it be
some time after. Occupied patients are often accused of doing too much
of their own business.
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